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The things
that trip teens up academically...
and how to help them avoid these pitfalls
It's no secret that it's getting harder to earn
a high school diploma in New York State. Yet high school success
lays the foundation for your teen's success in college, work and
life.
Throughout high school, teens still need their parents' gentle
guidance. We asked high school guidance counselors, social
workers, families and teachers about the most common things that
trip teens up academically - and how to avoid them. Here's what
they said:
Poor organizational skills
Teens need solid organizational skills to help
them meet school deadlines and still have time for work and
play. Despite all the electronic organizational tools available,
guidance counselors recommend that teens use basic paper
planners/agenda books. They fit easily into backpacks and purses
and don't need batteries or cables to power them. If teens
didn't learn to rely on their planners during middle school,
help tutor them now on how to record their assignments,
activities and necessary supplies.
Another helpful, low-tech organizational tool is a large-grid
wall or desk calendar to map out long-term assignments, upcoming
tests, appointments and activities. Being able to visualize what
they're responsible for over a week or a month can help students
budget their time more wisely (e.g., tackling a long-term
project a little each day rather than right before it's due).
Homework? What homework?
Admittedly, there are a lot of things teens
would rather be doing outside of school hours than homework.
Instituting a family "work first/play later" policy - requiring
teens to use study halls or setting aside a chunk of time right
after school to complete work each day - can be a great
motivator for those who can't wait to get online or see friends.
This works particularly well with teens who still rely on
parents for transportation to and from events. Chauffeur
services become the payoff for good study habits.
Letting social lives take priority over
schoolwork
"She said WHAT about me!" High school social
workers say that girls are generally less able to separate
themselves from teen social turmoil and focus on schoolwork than
boys (although some boys are just as easily caught up in the
drama.) Despite what you might think, parents still have a lot
of influence over what their teenagers believe about their
talents and goals. Talk with your teens about what they're
passionate about, what they are good at and how these might
translate into careers. Help them understand that doing well
academically can make these dreams a reality in the future - a
future where they likely won't even remember who was going out
with whom!
Helping teens see the link between education
and future earnings
At one time, even the students who skated
academically during the high school years could find decent work
when they graduated. Not so today. If teens want to find work in
a satisfying, well-paying profession, they need to apply
themselves academically. In an increasingly competitive and
technology-heavy workforce, most high school grads will need as
least two additional years of schooling (college or technical
training) to land a decent job.
Average earnings by highest level of education (based on 2002
U.S. Census Bureau figures) for those with advanced degrees was
$72,824; for bachelor's degree-holders, $51,194 and for high
school graduates, $27,280. Non-graduates earned on average
$18,826 annually.
The Census Bureau report The Big Payoff: Educational Attainment
and Synthetic Estimates of Work-Life Earnings shows that over an
adult's working life, high school graduates can expect, on
average, to earn $1.2 million; those with a bachelor's degree
will earn $2.1 million and those with a master's degree will
earn $2.5 million.
A recent survey by the National Association of Colleges and
Employers shows a slight up-turn in the job market and starting
salaries for 2005 college graduates, particularly in the fields
of business, engineering and computer-related fields.
Family resources:
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The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens,
by Sean Covey Organizing from the Inside Out for Teens, by
Julie Morgenstern and the related Web site
www.organizedteens.com.
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Life Strategies for Teens, by Jay McGraw
(optional related pullout stat)
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Women who take more than two college-level
math courses often achieve pay equity with men, and in many
cases, receive higher average pay than men.
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Source: Expect the Best From a Girl-That's
What You'll Get, www.academic.org
Getting high on more than life
Though it may seem like a no-brainer to you,
teens may not see the damaging effects that getting high or
drunk, even occasionally, can have on their mental and physical
development. Research shows that teen brains respond to alcohol
differently than adult brains. Just one alcoholic drink can
affect their ability to think and speak clearly and move well.
Research also shows that marijuana-the number one illicit drug
of choice for teens-impairs teens' concentration and ability to
retain information. This can be especially problematic during
peak learning years.
At www.theantidrug.com, you can learn about the
many drugs available to teens and the dangers they pose. You can
also learn about ways to talk with your teens about why staying
clean and sober, despite intense peer pressure, is the way to
go.
Senioritis sets in
It used to be that by the senior year, teens had
their required coursework out of the way, college acceptance
letters had begun rolling in and they could safely "slack off" a
bit. Not anymore! Today, many seniors are still working at
coursework needed for graduation. Moreover, a preliminary
college acceptance letter doesn't mean they're off the hook
academically since more and more colleges are withholding final
acceptance based on end-of-senior year grades.
Having too many irons in the fire
This can be a tricky balance. On the one hand,
guidance counselors say that the busier teens are the better
they tend to do with schoolwork. In fact, extracurricular
activities have many clear benefits. However, this assumes that
teens aren't spreading themselves so thin that they aren't
putting good effort into all that they do.
Working too much or too soon
A part-time job can spell freedom in the form of
money for a car, clothing or cell phone. But, when teens begin
working too young or too much, schoolwork is likely to be pushed
off as they try to earn still more money to pay for car
insurance, repairs and gas. Also, teens don't always realize
that employers expect them to show up for work whether they've
studied for tomorrow's test or not. Steering your enterprising
teens toward youth-friendly employers-more and more require
proof that students are maintaining their grades- might be the
best way to help your enterprising teen keep academics "job
one."
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